Dallas Colleges: Gail Goestenkors
He thanked her for her work, and told her he appreciated her.
"Who in the world knows how somebody feels?" Brown said.
It came from a conversation with legendary Longhorns coach Darrell Royal back in 2003, when Brown felt similar to Goestenkors.
"I asked him, 'Why did you quit?'" Brown said. "And there were reasons. But he said that when the losses became devastating and the wins became relief and it wasn't fun to even win, because you were supposed to, then I needed to get out."
Brown, then in his sixth season and third of what would be nine consecutive 10-win seasons, said he just needed to "wake up."
Two years later, he won a national championship and his second consecutive Rose Bowl.
That feeling crept back in during the Longhorns' trying 5-7 season in 2010. Even Texas' signature victory of that campaign didn't offer the same kind of pleasure such a win used to, Brown said.
"I remember beating Nebraska, walking off the field and I was worried about [Brown's wife] Sally because she lost her brother," Brown said. "I didn't have any joy in that win and that was stupid because it was a huge win for Texas and these kids. I didn't feel it walking off the field because of her loss and I felt a little guilty I was there without her and her brother being buried."
He saw the same in Goestenkors, Brown said. He needed another wakeup call after 2010, and may have got it in a new staff with two new, young coordinators, Manny Diaz (defense) and Bryan Harsin (offense). Bouncing back for eight wins may have helped, too, but Texas has bigger things in mind for 2012 and beyond: Namely, a return to the excellence Brown established in his first decade at the helm in Austin.
"If you're going to walk around and pout when you lose, act like a baby, and when you win act arrogant, not feel good about a win because Texas is supposed to win -- we don't anoint ourselves supposed to win -- then you're in some trouble and you need to have fun," Brown said. "You need to have joy."
Texas has made three NCAA tournament appearances in Gail Goestenkors' three seasons thus far. Is that enough? No one, least of all Goestenkors, thinks so. She left behind the days of "Isn't it great to be in the tournament?" a long time ago. As in, after the first season Duke made it into the field when she was there, in 1995. From then on, that was a bare-minimum "requirement."For more, click here.
"I always believe I'm going to have higher expectations than anybody else for my team," said Goestenkors, whose record at Texas is 65-36. "So I've been disappointed that it hasn't gone quicker. I had those expectations that we'd come in, turn it around quickly. So it's been a process for me to learn just how long it takes to change things."
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