Friday, August 13, 2010
English pens letter on single moms remark
By Andrea Adelson
Eastern Michigan coach Ron English has been under fire for comments he made about single moms during MAC media day. The criticism has gotten so bad, English today issued a letter to the editor to once again clarify comments he made at MAC media day. Here is his quote from July 31:
"You know what the real focus was? We wanted to recruit football players that love football. I felt like we had a lot of guys who really didn't love football. They maybe were playing football so that they could go to school or whatever, but not for the love of playing football.
"So when we went out, we wanted to do two things. We wanted players who love football, who have the physical ability to play football and then the other thing we wanted was guys that could be coached. We wanted guys that had a father in their background because if you don't, the hard part is, some guy like me coming in and corrects you. So you're working -- that's a whole another dynamic. A guy that's raised by his mom -- and please don't take me wrong -- but the reality is, you have to teach that guy how to be taught by a man. That's part of it."
Here is his letter to the editor:
"Media reports on comments attributed to me at the recent Mid American Conference Football Media Day have reached a point where I think it is important, as the Head Football Coach at Eastern Michigan University, to clarify for the record my position and to shed a little light on my history.
A July 31st article in The Detroit News quoted me as saying:
“We wanted guys that had a father in their background. A guy that is raised by his mom all the time, and please don’t get me wrong, but the reality is you’ve got to teach that guy how to be taught by a man."
The quote was an incomplete snippet of a lengthy conversation with a pool of reporters on my thoughts on our recruiting class. The comment was also made in the context of me providing insight into the first year of our program and, the prospects for our upcoming season. It was NOT a conversation about my thoughts on the value of single parent mothers or, the vitally important role father figures can play in not only those situations, but others as well. Had it been a discussion on those topics, I would have shared that my twin brother and I are products of being raised by our grandmother, Mamie Blaylock. My mother (who was not married to my father) passed away when I was 18-months old. In addition, I would have spoken about several coaches and other men who played an equally important role in whatever I have been able to achieve as a person.
I hold a Bachelor’s Degree from the University of California and a Masters’ from Arizona State University. In December 2008, this great university (Eastern Michigan University) honored me by naming me its Head Football Coach, making me only one of five African-American Division I Head Football Coaches in America at the time (and one of only 13 today). To suggest I would dismiss or negate the critical role played by single parent mothers or, men who serve as mentors in young men’s lives, would contradict the very way I WAS RAISED (which would be absurd).
Throughout my 18-year coaching career, I have been privileged to not only have successfully coached several young men raised by their mothers but, to have personally been a father figure and mentor to many of them. As just one of many examples of which I am profoundly proud of, Jimmy Verdon, a Graduate Assistant on our Staff at EMU, comes particularly to mind. Verdon, who was raised by his Aunt, overcame a learning disability and was recruited by, and played for me at Arizona State. He not only went on to receive his Degree, but enjoyed a career in the National Football League before joining our Staff at EMU. In addition to working with our student athletes, he is presently enrolled in a Masters Degree Program at our School. As we work each day to give Eagle Nation, the Football Program, its students, faculty, Administrators, donors and Alumni so richly deserve, be assured we will continue to attract the very best student athletes for this Institution who meet our standards of decorum and personal responsibility, regardless of the demographic of the households they were raised in."
Head Football Coach
Eastern Michigan University