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Saturday, August 4, 2012
HOF12: Doleman, Tez and parenting lessons

By Mike Sando

CANTON, Ohio -- A theme is emerging throughout the ongoing Pro Football Hall of Fame proceedings.

Chris Doleman and Cortez Kennedy in particular have stressed the importance strong parenting played in their lives and, ultimately, in their successes on the field.

They've spoken of parents who held them accountable when it might have been easier let them off the hook.

Doleman's father had one rule: Finish whatever you start. Signing up for a sport or anything meant seeing it through no matter what.

Kennedy thanked his father for forcing him to cut the grass at 5 a.m. after doing a poor job the first time.

Kennedy reflected on his mother forcing him to quit the football team in high school when his grades slipped. When Kennedy's former teammates won a state title without him, Kennedy's mother went to the game and sent a postcard home.

"Wish you were here," it read.

Running away from difficulties might have shielded Doleman and Kennedy from short-term failures, but the lasting lessons would have been negative ones. Hats off to their parents.