St. Louis Rams: Rosey Grier

Reflections from Rosey Grier

November, 22, 2013
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EARTH CITY, Mo. -- If you haven't already, it's worth taking some time today, on the 50th anniversary of the assassination of President John F. Kennedy, to read through the remembrances and recollections of some of the NFL's greatest players, coaches and personnel types.

Not least of those offering their memories was former Rams defensive tackle Rosey Grier. I had the good fortune to get Mr. Grier to agree to chat about a topic near and dear to him and the pain in his voice was audible even now 50 years later.

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AP Photo/NFL PhotosThe Rams' Rosey Grier went on to work on Robert Kennedy's security detail.
As you can see in the piece, Grier has a vivid memory of the day it all happened. He remembered going to an end of the field and weeping not only for the country but for the Kennedy family. He recalled going home and watching the coverage and holding out hope that the President would pull through. And he remembers the pain when he passed away.

At the time, Grier didn't have any connection to the Kennedy family deeper than the average voter. He said he came around to Kennedy as a candidate when he heard that he had reached out to Martin Luther King Jr. to help further King's efforts in creating racial equality.

When Grier retired from football in 1966, he had many opportunities thrown his way. He took advantage of plenty of them, appearing on television and in films, writing books and working on a seemingly endless array of community service projects.

But one of the first things Grier did when his football days came to a close was take advantage of the chance he was given to play a role in the presidential candidacy of Robert F. Kennedy.

"I empathized with them but I didn’t know them and then sometime later Bobby Mitchell had given Ethel Kennedy my agent’s telephone number and she called and asked me to come to Washington D.C. to do an event that they were raising money to send kids from the inner city out into the country for the summer and I went," Grier said. "I went, though I was reluctant to fly and I have never in all my life met a family that was so blind to color and so open for love. I hit it off right away with Senator Kennedy, Bobby, and that night I got there, he and I stayed together. Everywhere he went, I went. I met from Whizzer White to Lauren Bacall and all of the people that were there because I was with him the whole time. We just walked around and he said this is my friend, this is my friend, this is my friend. They just were so nice and from that moment on they were my key people."

Grier became fast friends with Kennedy and stuck around to serve on his security detail as Kennedy began his run for the Oval Office. Grier was protecting Ethel Kennedy, Robert's wife, the night Robert was assassinated in Los Angeles in 1968.

Fifty years after the assassination of John F. Kennedy, Grier still ponders what could have been.

"We as a nation, we had high expectations for us," Grier said. "To me, they were instrumental in helping Martin Luther King and trying to accomplish the goal of every man represents all of us and there was no difference in our color yet we had divided ourselves into races and had divided ourselves into schools and yet here was a man, here was people who were not concerned about that. They were concerned about the welfare of the nation and that made me feel very good. I felt I was safe. Anytime I would go to Washington, I would call them. If they were out in this area they would call me. I loved them."

JFK Remembered: Rosey Grier

November, 21, 2013
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Roosevelt GrierAP PhotoFormer Rams defensive tackle Roosevelt Grier remembers how he felt the day President Kennedy died.
The former Los Angeles Rams defensive tackle and bodyguard for Robert F. Kennedy reflects on the 50-year anniversary of the assassination of President John Fitzgerald Kennedy:

"I was in San Fernando Valley with the Rams. We were at practice running around and [coach] Harland Svare came out and blew the whistle. We all ran over thinking we were going to get our assigned area to work. We go out there and he says, ‘I’ve got some bad news.’ He said, ‘Our president has been shot.’

"It was like dead silence fell over the field. Everyone was thinking. And we had one guy who always said something. He said, ‘They got another one.’ I look at him and I thought he didn’t understand the seriousness of our president being shot because there was such joy in our country and there was such hope in our country. We had a man who could take us to new heights in terms of the nation. I went down to the other end of the field and I cried. I cried for his family. I cried because of him being a father and brother and a leader of our nation. I cried. And I thought, ‘How could this be?’

"Yet, here we were. We were facing one of the most devastating things that I’ve ever been a part of and there we were. It was a tremendously difficult time for all of us. All the media was talking about this assassination. I sat and I watched and I watched the family and I didn’t see anyone crying. I saw everyone standing up and being a Kennedy. I thought it represented something for all of us that when tragedy comes -- and it does come -- you can’t stop. You have to keep going because the race is still going and there’s work to be done to make us better, to open our eyes to see that there is danger and each person is responsible to respond to that danger and sometimes it costs you the very life that you live.

"When practice was over, I went home and just sat. You go to practice and you listen to the radio and you read the newspapers and everyone is talking about it. It was a constant, constant dialogue on how it happened, who did it and why and all of that. My feeling was for the family and what it meant for the family.

"There was absolutely nothing I could do but think about the family. At that particular time, I wasn’t the minister that I am [now] but I was a believer but I didn’t know the power of prayer. I learned about prayer later that these are areas of our lives that we need to know the power of prayer and how to comfort the family through prayer and even though you don’t really know them, you admire them.

“The thing that goes through my mind [thinking about it today] is how did we miss this? We all thought everyone was happy and everyone was enjoying it. But we never realized that there are people that hate us. Suddenly, you wake up and realize that regardless of what you do good, people still don’t like you for it. I became aware and I began to be very watchful of people. I would no longer allow people to say derogatory remarks about other people when I was around them. I was very cognizant of the way athletes behaved themselves when they were in the public eye when other people were measuring their actions. I began to speak up. Quietly, I would say to that person or that group that we have a responsibility to be better representatives of the light.

“I just would like to say to the Kennedys that they gave a lot for this country and this country owes them a lot, not because of what they did, but because they stood and they represented what was good about our country and they got involved in issues that sometimes were controversial but they got involved to make our nation better.”

-- Grier, 81, as told to ESPN.com Rams reporter Nick Wagoner

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