PHOENIX -- Given her druthers, June Collison would just as soon be mistaken for June Cleaver. She refers to herself as "just a mommy,'' happily ignoring the fact that she was an Olympic sprinter.
The trouble, most mommies will tell you, comes when the nest empties, leaving the parental frittering for a bird that pops in only every now and again. Since Darren Collison enrolled at UCLA three years ago, June still does her son's laundry, still sorts his closet by colors ("whites with the whites; makes it easier to find things"), still cooks for him when he comes home.
Darren's on-campus digs are off limits, more by June's choosing than her son's. She knows the inevitable mess would send her into a tizzy, so June has limited her mommy duties to the family's home in nearby Rancho Cucamonga, Calif.
However, that wasn't enough, not with Darren's college years speeding by like a bullet train, a change to the NBA express likely coming down the tracks. So this year, June quit her job as a hospital CEO and became a consultant in the same field. Setting her hours to tailor her own needs rather than her company's, she orchestrated her day planner around a more important master schedule -- the one belonging to the UCLA Bruins.
UCLA has played 38 games this season. June has been at 37, missing only one game at Arizona because a commitment in Los Angeles kept her away.
"This is such a special time in his life, so I decided I didn't want to miss it. Now he's my only job,'' June said. "Before you know it, it's over. I wanted to be part of it with him.''
Those in Westwood, Calif., reaching for the smelling salts and nitroglycerin pills -- exhale. June insists there's nothing to read in the tea leaves of that statement, at least not yet.
"We haven't discussed next year at all,'' June said. "He hasn't even sat us down, and we haven't talked to him about it. There's no need. There's time for all that. Right now, we want him to be focused on one thing, and that's playing this weekend.''
Bruins fans would concur.
Kevin Love looms large as the difference-maker between this UCLA team and the most recent two that played on the final weekend of the college season, but the play of their mercurial point guard also could help determine whether the Bruins get off their 0-for-2 Final Four schneid.
Consider that in UCLA's three losses this season, Collison had 12 turnovers to 13 assists and shot 9-of-33 (27.2 percent) from the floor. When Western Kentucky made its stunning comeback from 21 points down in the regional semifinal, Collison watched much of it from the bench, saddled with foul trouble. He played only 28 minutes, shooting 1-of-6 with four turnovers and fouling out for the first time in his collective college and high school careers as the Bruins barely squeaked out of the Sweet 16.
That was against Tyrone Brazelton, a previously unheard of point guard who schooled Collison for 31 points.
On Saturday, Collison will go toe-to-toe with a guy by the name of Rose, a studly rookie who blasted onto the college scene when his coach thumbed his nose at NCAA rules and slyly stuck a photo of a red rose on billboards touting preseason No. 1 Memphis. Derrick Rose just dropped 21 points and nine assists on D.J. Augustin while holding the Texas All-American to 4-of-18 shooting.
There's no need to tell Collison how important he'll be. He is critically aware, calling his position the most difficult and most vital on the floor.
"I have to play at a top level at all times,'' he said.
Not settling for mediocrity is just one of the lessons from June and Dennis Collison that have taken deep root in their son. He listens, not only because he's an obedient child, but because his parents have a little athletic clout to back up their teachings. June ran the 400 meters for Guyana in the 1984 Olympic Games. Dennis ran the 200 meters, also for Guyana, at the Pan Am Games. Naturally, the couple hoped Darren would follow in their footsteps and blaze a trail to the finish line, and they dragged him to track practice with hope and excitement.
He needs to be able to deal with adversity in life, so it all will make him stronger. We told him that all the time. It maybe wasn't what he wanted to hear all the time, but it's the truth.
He balled his eyes out.
"I was upset I was missing my TV show, 'Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles,'" Darren Collison said. "I remember crying and crying about it, and finally they said, 'Maybe track isn't for you.'"
Determined that their son would play something, they pushed him into a neighborhood basketball league. Collison found his niche. This was running, yes, but running with a purpose. It was a constant event, not a quick-hit race that lasted seconds.
Slightly disappointed -- "We had these visions of him doing what we did,'' June said -- Collison's parents nonetheless counseled him in a game they didn't necessarily understand. They talked to him about eating well and sleeping well, and he lapped it all up.
But this season, a season turned herky-jerky by injuries and illness, Collison's parents have played an even more vital role. They at once have offered the solace of welcoming parental arms as well as the understanding and feistiness of high-caliber athletes.
A year after toying with going pro as a sophomore, Collison returned to a knee injury that kept him out of UCLA's first six games, a case of severe food poisoning that landed him in the hospital and a painful hip pointer that nagged at him in January.
"Someone said to me, 'Have you ever thought he could be in the NBA right now instead of dealing with all of this?'" June said. "Everything has a purpose in life. He never had any kind of injury to deal with. He needs to be able to deal with adversity in life, so it all will make him stronger. We told him that all the time. It maybe wasn't what he wanted to hear all the time, but it's the truth.''
He vows not to have one. In between his disastrous game against Western Kentucky and the Bruins' next game, an Elite Eight matchup against Xavier, Collison fell on his sword so much he could have been a shredded paper doll.
He also promised not to give a repeat performance, turning a withering stare to a questioner who asked how he might rebound from his lousy evening.
"Good players normally bounce back,'' he said simply but forcefully.
Against Xavier, Collison had 19 points in 37 minutes, shooting 7-of-12 from the floor, and the normally fearless, boastful Stanley Burrell found himself red-eyed in the locker room afterward.
"He's a very good guard, very good,'' Burrell said, fighting back tears. "He plays at a great pace, runs the team well."
Burrell took a deep breath, wiped his eyes with a white towel, then spoke earnestly and sincerely.
"I have a lot of respect for him,'' he said.
That is music to any mommy's ears.
Dana O'Neil covers college basketball for ESPN.com and can be reached at email@example.com.